StyleLife Consultations by Catherine Swanson

Shop Smarter, Not Harder

2011-08-01T11:43:00.000-05:00

What's in your closet? Seriously, what does your wardrobe look like? How do you feel about it as a whole? How do you feel about the clothes individually? How often do you wear every item you own? Do you have a quality, functional wardrobe or one where "I have nothing to wear..." is a daily saying? These are important questions to ask yourself and to honestly answer as you evaluate your wardrobe.

Prioritizing "quality over quantity" definitely should apply to your wardrobe. If you own many pieces that you don't wear, it's time to re-evaluate what's in your closet. If you don't wear what you own, then why is it still in your wardrobe? Try each item on and be honest with yourself. Do you like it? Does it fit and flatter your figure? Any unworn and/or unflattering items just clutter what could be a fabulous boutique-like closet (that is, if it doesn't already look like that, of course).

We want options so we may buy a large quantity of clothing, but how much of it actually fits and flatters? How many of those clothes are actually worn once purchased? It's time to "shop smarter, not harder." Changing it up is important so it's extremely important to shop smart and with a plan. If your wardrobe contains QUALITY pieces that fit and flatter AND mix and match and coordinate, then you will have many more outfit options with fewer items. I'm not saying not to fill your closet. I'm just saying to have more options and less of the "I-Have-Nothing-To-Wear" syndrome, it takes strategy and effort.

Basic wardrobe staples and accents, including trendy items, should be tracked so when shopping you know what's missing from your wardrobe and what will work well in and with your current wardrobe.

Below are some outfit "switch-ups" to illustrate how you can transform an outfit by simply switching up the accent pieces.

Day Look 1
Imagine: Lunch with the Mother-in-Law

Main Staple: Calvin Klein dress

Accents: NY&Co. earrings, bracelets, belt and bag, Bakers heels, For Love headband

Evening Look 1
Imagine: Cocktails with coworkers

Main Staple: Calvin Klein dress

Accents: NY&Co. belt, Express earrings and clutch, Charlotte Russe heels

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Day Look 2
Imagine: Shopping about town

Main Staples: Max Studio dress, Forever 21 coverlet

Accents: Jessica Simpson bag, For Love earrings, Target flats

Evening Look 2
Imagine: Dinner with old friends

Main Staples: Max Studio dress, Forever 21 coverlet

Accents: Express clutch, Express earrings, Target heels

For even more of a switch-up here,

I could have left off the coverlet for day or chosen a black cropped coverlet instead for evening.

This dress could also look more casual and just as charming with a cute denim jacket.

Add flats or wedges and voila, perfect fall weather carnival date outfit!

Of course, any switch-up has MANY options if you're creative. :) I just want to drive the point home that quality staples and switching up the accents are important in any functional wardrobe.

It's fun to take pieces and dress them up or down, for whatever the occasion calls.

Styling outfits, just like applying makeup, is an art form because dressing often relies on your emotions/mood of the day. How do you feel today? Translate that into your outfit and see what happens.

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Day Look 3
Imagine: Brunch with girlfriends

Main Staple: Scarlett dress

Accents: Miztique bag, Bakers heels, For Love earrings, Belt (n/a)

Evening Look 3
Imagine: At a winery

Main Staple: Scarlett dress

Accents: Steve Madden booties, Tommy Hilfiger wallet as clutch, For Love earrings

You may have noticed that:
I used the turquoise Bakers peep-toe heels in 2 of the above outfits. I also used the smoke and pewter For Love earrings in 2 of the above outfits. Additionally, I used the black Express clutch and the Express earrings twice in the above outfits. The strategy of choosing outfits early and being able to mix/match and coordinate also makes packing for travel much easier and maybe even fun instead of stressful.

It's not about how many items you have... it's about the quality of each item and your confidence to style each outfit with the pieces that work for you. As always, have fun and have a fabulous day every day!

<3 Catherine

My StyleLife Philosophy Blog OPENING

2011-06-29T18:38:00.000-05:00

Hello, hello. I hope you're enjoying your week. It's a busy week here, and I'm super excited to announce the official BLOG OPENING of My StyleLife Philosophy at http://mystylelifephilosophy.blogspot.com. I posted the welcome post today and will post the welcome video next week. I will be adding photos, reviews, stories and more to My StyleLife Philosophy on a weekly basis. I welcome questions, comments and requests and will do my best to respond to as many as I can.

Follow me on Twitter @StyleLifeCS. Email me at cs.stylelife@yahoo(dot)com. Or comment below.

Thank you for reading. Hope you enjoy.

Have a fabulous day every day!

New Blog Coming Soon!

2011-06-01T21:09:00.001-05:00

I am working on a new blog where I will feature lots of photos, tips, ideas and projects all relating to the StyleLIFE. My new blog is all about my StyleLife philosophy, "Do good, be positive and be stylish in everything you do."

The new blog will include personal style, home style, party/wedding style and more. It is an expression of my life. I am so excited about the new blog because it is personal. I hope you enjoy, and I will keep you posted on the details.

I will also feature other stylish bloggers that I feel share the StyleLife philosophy. If you would like to be featured on my new STYLELIFE blog, please email me at cs.stylelife@yahoo.com, tweet me @stylelifeCS or leave your blog address below. Thank you.

Have a fabulous day every day!

Summer Fashion 2011

2011-06-01T20:55:00.000-05:00

Summer fashions are fun, flirty and empowering. This summer season is no different. Bring on the gorgeous summer fashions, for I am ready to style.

One of my favorite classics is also once again trendy- LACE. Lace can be sweet, girly and sexy. Lace tops, lace dresses, lace accessories- they are all perfect for summer wear. TRY IT: Combine a lace piece with a menswear piece, add a statement accessory and talk about a fabulous contrast that will turn heads.

Fashion is art. It is a personal and cultural expression. Fashion is creative, inspiring, expressive, dynamic and functional. Fashions fade, and fashions trend. Decade-specific fashions are a common inspiration for current designers, so it is no surprise that often the decade-specific fashions reemerge with new life. This summer 50s, 60s and 70s fashions are showcased. We may not all be fans of every retro-reincarnation, but subtly adding decade-specific (authentic or new) pieces into our summer wardrobe can be fun. Shopping for vintage pieces is definitely a perfect way to spend a beautiful afternoon with friends.

In addition to lace treasures and 50s/60s/70s retro finds, expect to see bold stripes, bright colors, funky wedges, feminine shaping, funky-chic patterns, bright nail color and lots of personality. Wear what speaks to you, and have fun.

If you would like to be featured on this blog or my NEW blog (coming soon!), email me at cs.stylelife@yahoo.com. Thanks! :)

Have a fabulous day every day.

Shoes, Shoes, Shoes

2011-05-22T13:25:00.000-05:00

If you love shoes, check out my specialty blog, CHIC SHOE REVIEW, at http://chicshoereview.blogspot.com. I review fabulous shoes (and some not-so-fabulous ones also). I give each pair a 1-5 star rating and explain my rating.

I love shoes, and on Chic Shoe Review I give you my honest evaluation of each pair of shoes posted. Hope you find it helpful and entertaining. Let me know if you have questions or comments. If you would like me to review a pair of shoes from your company, please email me at cs.stylelife@yahoo.com with details.

Thank you, and have a fabulous day every day.

TWITTER: Here I am

2011-04-29T19:44:00.000-05:00

I am finally on Twitter, and I do love to tweet. I post tips, mini reviews, random thoughts and will tweet about contests as well.

What's in Your Closet?

Follow me @StyleLifeCS.

The British ROYAL Wedding

2011-04-29T19:39:00.000-05:00

Okay, be honest. Who watched the British Royal Wedding LIVE? No matter who you are, how can you resist a beautiful wedding? I admit I shed a few tears.

My interest in the wedding grew exponentially this past week. I watched a Lifetime movie with my Mom based on Catherine and William... and I was in! So then, I had every intention of waking at 3am to watch the entire live coverage, but I decided sleep was important. At 6am, I watched what I could of the live portion, and caught the wedding ceremony when E! played the encore. Thank goodness for the encore on E!

The wedding was fabulously traditional, yet modernized and lovely. The wedding fashions were breathtaking! I am hereby promoting hats and fascinators at weddings, luncheons or whenever us ladies feel a hat would be a perfect addition.

Catherine's dress was phenomenal! The dress was a McQueen masterpiece by Sarah Burton. The dress fit Catherine perfectly and was reminiscent of Grace Kelly's wedding dress. Catherine made the dress her own though. I also loved that Catherine did her own makeup. I respect that she is a self-sufficient woman who knows what she wants, and she wanted William to recognize her. Admirable.

What was your favorite part of the British Royal Wedding?

Fashionista Alert: RACHEL ZOE

2011-04-07T12:42:00.000-05:00

Celebrities tend to look ultra-amazing on the red carpet and many in their daily life also. Many celebrities are polished and poised. Their outfits are custom-tailored to their already beautiful bodies making for near flawlessness once the photos are taken and hit the magazine stands. So how do these celebrities manage to maintain their polish? The answer for many celebrities is that it takes a great team behind the celebrity to help with hair, makeup, styling and assisting. I'm definitely not saying their beauty is tainted by the extra help. It just puts a certain perspective on celebrity.

One person who deserves credit for many of "Hollywood's" best dressed is RACHEL ZOE, stylist extraordinaire. She is not only a fashionista and a celebrity fairy god-mother, she is also a reality star (celebrity in her own right) and a new mom.

I just recently discovered her website/blog at www.rachelzoe.com and subscribed to THE ZOE REPORT. I highly recommend subscribing now. Try it out, and let me know what you think.

Enjoy Spring and have fun with your style. As always, please email at cs.stylelife@yahoo.com or call me at (618) 401-1434 with questions, comments or to book an appointment. Thank you.

Have a fabulous day every day!

Welcoming Spring Into Your Wardrobe

2011-03-16T14:04:00.001-05:00

Spring 2011 is upon us, yay! Let the sunshine pour in the windows (on days the rain subsides). Spring is a time of rebirth, reawakening and really bright, beautiful colors and styles. Spring is beautiful in nature and in fashion. Is your wardrobe spring ready? If not, it's time to reinvigorate your closet.

Spring 2011 trends include, but are not limited to, caramel browns (especially for shoes), nudes (for every skintone), florals, lace, 70s inspired flavors, Bohemian updates, mini dresses, updated maxi dresses and tea length skirts. Braids and beach-wave hair are definitely a do when styled accordingly for the occasion. Small barrettes are the hot hair accessory of the moment. Spring makeup is generally more sun-kissed and fresh, but bright eyeshadow is perfect for spring (and summer).

While shopping for spring clothing and accessories, remember to have fun and be positive. You are beautiful, and your body is unique to YOU. You may try on several items that may not work for you, but you may also find several items that do! So keep that last part in mind. Please don't worry about the size tags. Focus on clothing that fits, flatters and boosts your confidence. The ultimate goal is to look and feel fabulous, not to worry about what size you wear. We are usually our toughest critics, but show yourself some love. You are amazing so your clothes should emphasize just that.

And you have standards. When trying on different pieces, remember to aim for only purchasing clothing that rates at least an 8.5 out of a 10 scale. L-O-V-E each piece you buy; otherwise it may just sit in your closet taking up the very valuable boutique closet space.

Speaking of closet space, how much clothing do you have stuffed in your closet that just doesn't fit quite right? If you do not already have a tailor, I highly recommend hiring one- definitely worth the small investment. Some dry-cleaners, clothing stores and tux rental shops have tailors on hand. A tailor can help you transform an ill-fitting piece of clothing into a custom-like favorite, if there is enough material to do so.

Have a very happy and fabulous spring! As always, please email me at cs.stylelife@yahoo.com with any questions, comments or to schedule an appointment with me. Thank you.

1st Annual StyleLife Contest- Metro East, IL- 2011

2010-10-12T17:21:00.004-05:00

Hello powerful, beautiful women (and men). It is such a beautiful time of year. People getting ready for the holiday season, changing colors in nature and reflections of who and what we are thankful for, not to mention all the great fall fashion trends that help us realize our inner superstar, are just a few reasons why right now is a perfect time for a contest. I know we are all busy, but this contest is meant to be a fun and uplifting break from the hustle-bustle. Hope you enjoy.

I am starting an Annual StyleLife Contest, and I invite you to enter if you live in or near Fairview Heights, O'Fallon, Shiloh, Belleville (all in ILLINOIS) or within 20 miles of the above towns. For every fifty (50) entries, I will choose one (1) winner. The prize is a StyleLife Consultation with yours truly. Further details, such as consultation date and time, will be discussed when I choose the winner(s).

Just send me an email at cs.stylelife@yahoo.com (by Saturday, March 12, 2011) and tell me about yourself, or someone for which you are entering, and what you are thankful for, what makes your life beautiful and/or what makes you feel beautiful. Please include your name, the best way to contact you and any other relevant information. Thank you.

I will post entries on my site for inspirational purposes. All of our stories are important and can positively impact others. However, if you would not like your entry and/or name posted on my site, please make a note in your email, and I will respect your wishes. Thank you.

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The Breakdown:

Who? One (1) winner per fifty (50) entries---- from Fairview Heights, O'Fallon, Belleville, Shiloh and surrounding areas within 20 miles, all within Illinois. Next year may include a different location/area.

What? The winner(s) will win a free StyleLife Consultation with me. We can arrange details according to the desires of the winner, such as appointment date and time.

When? Deadline for entries for the 1st Annual StyleLife Contest is

Saturday, March 12, 2011.

The winner(s) will be selected and notified within two weeks of the deadline date.

Where? This year's qualifying locations are Fairview Heights, O'Fallon, Belleville, Shiloh and surrounding areas within 20 miles, all within Illinois. If you are unsure whether your town/city is included, please email me at cs.stylelife@yahoo.com. Thank you. Next year may include a different location/area.

How? Tell me about yourself and what makes you thankful, what makes you feel beautiful and/or what makes your life beautiful. If you know someone who needs some pampering and lifting of spirits, you can enter for them as a gift. Please include your name (and the person for whom you are sending an entry, if applicable), the best way to contact you and any other relevant information. Thank you.

Hope you all enjoy this contest, and I am sure I will enjoy reading your beautiful entries. Have a fabulous day every day. Hope to hear from you soon. -Catherine

Fall Fashion 2010

2010-10-11T13:35:00.002-05:00

Hey fashionistas and style queens/ princesses. Winter is around the corner, but there are still lots of days in this fall season left to strut your fall fashion and everyday style know-how.

Plaids done right, boots and booties galore (especially with interesting embellishments), opaque leggings, leopard print anything, lacy tights, ruffles, lace, pearls, trench coats and so much more feminine fabulousness is on trend right now. I am super excited about a chic classic growing in popularity for fall and winter- TWEED. Chanel lovers everywhere are celebrating. An outfit with a tweed jacket can be transformed from classic and prissy (of which I am still a fan) to punchy and unexpected by adding over a tight tank, with dark-wash denim jeans and sexy heels or over a fabulous dress with heels... Button the jacket, leave it open, put a belt (or ribbon) over the jacket... The possibilities are almost endless.

Keep in mind, most of the above trend-worthy items are pretty classic so this is a great time to buy staple pieces for your wardrobe. As always, flavorize each outfit with your own touch.

Accessories and hair are perfect avenues to customize your look further. High volume hair and sexy poofs are super hot now (and always have been to me, as I often do a voluminous poofy bun with my hair). Add a sassy clip and voila! With that said, you may want to make certain that you are completely satisfied with the volume of your hair before you walk out the door. How does your hair look from all angles? There is a fine line between "what-the-Jersey?" and sexy superstar.

Always make sure you are 100% confident with your whole ensemble. It should fit and flatter you, no matter which trend or style. You are beautiful, and your style should accentuate that (not detract from that).

Have a fabulous day every day! Stay stylish.

What IS In Your Closet?

2010-07-01T11:24:00.005-05:00

Do you often stand at your closet and struggle with what you will wear that day? Would you like your closet to be easy (and fun) to look through like a boutique? Do you want your closet to be organized but you just haven't taken the time to do so yet? What is holding you back from organizing and enjoying your closet? Do you wear outfits that you plan and clothes you feel fabulous in, or do you rush out the door each morning without planning and feeling great in your outfit? If you feel like you are in a 'style funk,' what are you waiting for to enhance your style? There are many ways to enhance your style on your own or with some assistance from a StyleLife Consultant.

If you are trying to enhance your style on your own, try the following steps and evaluate how you feel once you tried each step.

1. Get a 3-angle mirror for a complete view of the clothing on your body, or have an honest person near to help you make decisions.

2. Interview yourself. How do you feel? How do you feel in each piece of clothing you own? What do you like about each piece? When do you feel your best? When do you feel your sexiest? What is your favorite feature on yourself? What is your profession? Do you have young kids and/or pets? What is your image saying about you to your family, friends, coworkers, boss, clients and strangers? What would you like your image to say? What can you incorporate into your daily routine to maintain your new style once you have achieved it? For example, will you spend 10 minutes each night preparing (steaming the clothes included here if needed) the next day's outfit down to the shoes and accessories? Also, will you look in the mirror before you walk out the door to make certain that your outfit looks put together?
If you would like a professional perspective, hiring a StyleLife Consultant can be helpful, fun and life-changing. A StyleLife consultant will conduct a profile interview of the above questions and more to try to fully understand where you stand in regard to your style and what you would like to achieve.

3. Try on every single piece of clothing you own, and evaluate how you feel in each piece. Does each piece "fit and flatter" your body (height, shape, size- by look and feel- NOT by the tag size)?

4. Decide which pieces of clothing you will keep, alter or give away. It is handy to use multiple baskets or boxes to distinguish between each category for easy clean-up.

5. Once you have your "keep" items together, organize them in your closet. Use a convenient method. For example, like with like- shirts, pants, skirts, dresses, etc. Or organize by work wear, weekend wear and special occasion wear. Then, further organize by sub-categories of like with like. You can take it even further and organize by color too.

6. Once you have organized your clothes in a convenient and fabulous way, evaluate your wardrobe's 'style holes,' and write a list of clothing pieces that would fill the 'style holes.' For example, do you have a solid white oxford button-up that fits and flatters your figure? If not, that should definitely be on your list. When writing this list keep in mind that much of the list will consist of solid, neutral colored items that are your staple pieces. You should also consider including accessories/other key pieces (jewelry, bags, belts, shoes) on your list. Having an idea of what to shop for will definitely make the process seem less daunting. And you can budget accordingly. Your staple items will get more wear so focus on quality even if that means spending a little more to get higher quality.

7. Go shopping. A StyleLife Consultant will help with personal shopping assistance, but if you do not hire a professional, consider taking along an honest friend who can help give you feedback when you try on each piece. Ask yourself how each piece fits your body from all angles? Do you feel confident in each piece? Rate each piece on a scale from 1 -10. Don't settle for anything under an 8 or 9. You want to look and feel fabulous no matter what is in your closet. Only buy what you will wear with confidence.

8. Play dress up, and try on outfits from your closet. Photograph the outfits that you rate a 10 and keep in a 'style book' for easy planning and finding later. Include shoes, bags and jewelry. It may help to keep note of which accessories you put with each outfit.

9. Plan ahead. Each Sunday afternoon, take a few minutes to plan 5(-7) outfits for the work week ahead (yes, domestic goddesses are included, of course). Try using sachet bags to store the smaller accessories, and then hook it on the hanger to the appropriate outfit. Also, try using shoe bags for the shoes if space is an issue. *Coordinating outfits ahead of time in this way is extremely helpful for travel as well.

10. Enjoy the rewards of being even more fabulous and organized.

Have a fabulous day every day!

Time For a Fabulous Change

2010-06-20T14:15:00.003-05:00

Have you been thinking about organizing your closet or purchasing a new wardrobe but just have not made it a priority or you just do not know where to begin? How important is your wardrobe and image to you professionally, socially and personally? Are you portraying the image that you want people to see? How long does it take you to find an outfit each day? Once you find an outfit, are you happy with your choice after you put it on? Do you look and feel fabulous? How do you decide when you are ready to walk out the door?

If you are looking for affordable, professional style assistance, an honest opinion and want to have fun while refreshing your wardrobe and closet, then I can help. Contact me today to schedule your StyleLife consultation appointment at cs.stylelife@yahoo.com or call me at (618) 401-1434. I look forward to meeting you and helping you look and feel even more fabulous.

Have a fabulous day every day!

Spring 2010 Fashion Preview

2010-02-07T23:57:00.004-06:00

It is February and that means spring is near. For many of us, spring is an exciting time. Flowers bloom, the sun shines in between beautiful rain showers and fabulous fashions emerge, or re-emerge in many cases. Of course many of us may not have our new spring wardrobe completed yet, but we still have some time, so worry not. Here is a preview of what you can expect for Spring 2010 fashion trends .

Like many spring collections, Spring 2010 fashion will be filled with lots of color. Brights and pastels will both be in trend. Some trends will be inspired by cinematic pieces and others by nature. We will also see a lot of nature-influenced styles, including natural materials on purses and shoes. Naturals are going to be more popular than ever given our society's awareness of being ecologically and animal-friendly. In addition, expect to see lots of imaginative heels and dresses. We will see a lot of pieces with funky colors and unexpected combinations. White will also be on the fashion platter, but expect to see it with fun and colorful accessories. Spring fashion is all about having fun and putting the winter blues behind us. Bring on the sunny days and fabulous outfits.

As always, wear what makes you feel and look your best. Wear what fits and flatters your beautiful body and enjoy dressing each day. Have a fabulous day every day! :)

Happy 2010!

2010-01-03T22:48:00.003-06:00

It is now three days into the new year. If you have any resolutions, there is no better time than now to follow through or at least start working toward your goal(s). If you are desiring a career change, trying to rediscover yourself, trying to achieve your life dream or just looking to pamper yourself, then first take time to evaluate yourself, your current situation and what you can do to follow through with your resolution. Then, create a plan, calendar, map and/or list to help achieve your goal(s). Remember to be positive. Once you are on track, it is time to monitor your own progress, motivate yourself continually and reward yourself often. You can do anything you put your mind to if you are willing and dedicated to accomplishing your goal.

If you would like to make a StyleLife Consultation appointment, please contact me via email at cs.stylelife@yahoo.com or call me at (618) 401-1434. I look forward to working with you and to helping you achieve your StyleLife goal. :) Have a fabulous day!

Fearless Fashions

2009-10-27T15:15:00.001-05:00

Fashion is a fabulous art form that serves to help us express ourselves. Following fashions is fun. But follow trends too closely and it can be expensive and risky considering that trends typically last for only one or two seasons until new trends are the focus.

Incorporating classic looks into each outfit helps to balance out the trendy pieces and keeps the trends grounded and everyday wearable. I recommend investing the majority of your wardrobe budget into your main staple wardrobe pieces. These main pieces should be the backbone of your style. Your accent pieces and any trendy pieces should be the less expensive pieces as you probably will not wear them as often as your staples.

In addition to evaluating the value and cost of trends, remember to evaluate how the trend looks on you. Is the trend flattering on you? How will you feel 1, 5 or 10 years from now when you look back on photos of you wearing this particular trend? Are you following this trend simply because you saw it on the runway or on a celebrity? Only wear what suits you and makes you feel and look fabulous. Don't let the clothes wear you.

Shopping For Fall Basics

2009-08-16T17:00:00.005-05:00

Summer is enchanting us with its sunny days... for now... and the heat makes it more enticing to wear some sexy and semi-revealing pieces like a mini LBD, but what happens when the season changes and the chill sets in? How can we maintain our fabulous styles and still include our sexy flavor?

Here is a list of a few sexy style should-haves for the upcoming fall season:

*Chic, fitted solid lightweight jacket or trench coat with your personal flavor- like a metallic fabric or contrasting belt
--Check out bebe, J. Crew, Macy's, Cache, www.spiegel.com and any other store that offers beautifully stylish coats

*Dark fitted denim jeans that make you feel like a star are a style necessity. Make sure you try on lots of jeans to find the best pair(s) for you and your body.
--Check out any store that sells jeans and try on, try on, try on... it will pay off.

*Lace tights are practically a must. Sexy, classic and sophisticated. Lace reveals a little leg and a lot of style. With so many styles and colors to choose from, it should be easy to find at least one pair you will fall in love with.
--Check out www.express.com for some ideas.

*Boots to pair with pants and skirts. Make sure the boots you choose are flattering on you given your height and proportions.
--Check out www.bakersshoes.com, www.cutesygirl.com, www.victoriassecret.com and www.macys.com (Jessica Simpson) for just a few of the fabulous boots available.

*Thin tops and sweaters mixed with some chunky ones for layering. The different weights and textures add interest and movement. Make sure the bulkier pieces are minimal, always the top layer and that the pieces never hide your body. Accentuate the positive. :) Try on different combinations at:
--Forever21, H&M, Old Navy, Express, Ann Taylor, The Limited, Macy's and any other stores that speak to you

*A beautiful day bag to carry your everyday "essentials" is an every season essential
--Check out www.coach.com, www.macys.com and bags by Jessica Simpson. I highly recommend her designs.

*Remember that accessories are still important to complete any outfit.
--Try For Love for affordable, trendy costume jewelry, bags and belts.

Enjoy the changing seasons. Enjoy dressing for each day. And may you wear only the clothes that make you look and feel sexy and confident.

Spring Fashion Preview

2009-01-31T07:42:00.003-06:00

Spring is almost here, and that means spring clothing, sunny days, blooming flowers, a whole new perspective and a more stylish and confident you.

Is your wardrobe ready for this spring? If not, worry not. You still have some time to build up (or simply add to) your wardrobe for the upcoming season, and here is a preview of what is to come. Spring 2009 fashion trends will include bright (even neon) colors and lots of white; classic and trendy blends; brightly colored heels and wedges; accessories with your own flavor; graphic prints; dresses in lots of different shapes, colors and fabrics; and so much more.

Remember, follow trends wisely and gracefully, as in- do not be a victim of fashion trends. Incorporate the trends you love and that work for you... Not every trend is right for every BODY. Everyone can find (and wear) stylish ensembles (even if the outfit is not straight off the runway for that particular season). Focus on what looks and feels fabulous on you. Your clothing should "fit and flatter" your figure.

Just Married

2009-01-14T20:08:00.002-06:00

Just wanted to let you all know that I just got married, yay! I did take my husband's name so my new name is CATHERINE SWANSON. My email is still cs.stylelife@yahoo.com and my phone number is still (618) 401-1434.

Thank you for reading my blog. Please let me know if you have any questions, comments or requests. :)

A New Look for a New Year

2009-01-11T17:49:00.002-06:00

Time for a change?

Call me at (618) 401-1434

or email me at cs.stylelife@yahoo.com

to schedule your appointment.

Services include but may not be limited to:

style consultations, makeup application/ lessons, personal shopping assistance, closet organization assistance, interview preparation assistance

Gift Ideas For Stylish Women

2008-11-18T20:17:00.005-06:00

The holidays are just around the corner, and you might be wondering what the beautiful, stylish woman in your life might like for the upcoming holiday(s). Whether she is your friend, mother, girlfriend, wife or daughter, she deserves a gift that is special and thoughtful. Here is a short list of gift ideas for the style-conscious woman (in no order).

* Stylish trench coat
Trench coats look great on most women. They look classy and stylish.

* Scarf with a beautiful brooch (pin)
A scarf with a brooch adds flavor to any outfit.

* Pearl necklace
Every stylish woman should have a strand of pearls. Classics and trends can blend beautifully to create a style that is unique to each woman.

* Diamond stud earrings
These are a staple in a woman's "jewelry box."

* Spa/salon gift certificate/ appointment
Every woman deserves some time for herself to relax and enjoy being a woman.

* A beautiful dress and/or heels (IF and only if you know her true size(s)... enough said.)

*A gift basket of relaxation items and/or items that she will find fun and/or useful (like chocolates, coffees, scrapbooking items, accessories, shoe inserts, oil burner with oils, candles, a cute robe, slippers, etc.).

*A new magazine subscription to Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Elle, Vogue, Lucky, TIME, etc. (This depends on her interests, of course.)

Good luck, and enjoy the holidays!!! :)

Fantastic Family Blog

2008-11-11T19:33:00.001-06:00

Visit http://familydinnerisserved.blogspot.com for many budget-friendly recipes.

Fall 2008 Fashion

2008-10-26T16:31:00.002-05:00

Leaves are falling, and we are falling in love...

...with the fall '08 trends including but not limited to dark, opaque tights, lace, jewel tones and black, tights with peep-toe heels, boots, booties, "shooties", peep-toe booties and SOOO much more...

Trends come and go quickly. Some trends are 'out' after only one season, so keep this in mind before you spend your hard-earned cash on trend-only items. I recommend finding and only purchasing clothes that look fabulous on you, not just on the rack and/or the runway. Also, only wear what you feel comfortable with because confidence can make or break any outfit. Looking and feeling fabulous are extremely important! :)

Have fun with the new fall trends, and remember to incorporate the classics into your wardrobe as well.

Women's Wardrobe Basics

2008-08-21T14:58:00.004-05:00

We all have different styles, preferences and favorite colors. And, of course, we all have different lifestyles, priorities and "jobs" (stay-at-home moms definitely included). That being said, the following wardrobe basics are fairly general, and almost every wardrobe style can benefit from including the following items. This list is not exhaustive but contains some of the items that you "should-get-if-you-don't-already-have."

14. Fitted, black blazer (or any color for that matter, really depends upon your taste and style)

13. Longer, sexy, fitted, solid color T-shirts (and tanks if you feel comfortable- These are both great because they can be dressed up or down.)

12. Accessories that coordinate with your unique style (Use accessories to enhance, not distract from, you and your outfit.)

11. Sexy, yet comfortable, undergarments (If you feel sexy about what is going on underneath your clothes, then you are going to feel that much more confident about everything else.)

10. Red heels (Red is a fabulous color and the color of confidence. I also recommend including black and brown heels in your collection. If you like wearing heels, let your imagination free to find all sorts of alluring colors. (I recommend http://www.cutesygirl.com if you are on a tight budget.)

9. Comfortable yet stylish flats (or dressier wedges) in neutral colors

8. Sexy, stylish 'trench coat' in a solid color (black, charcoal, cream, dark khaki, etc.)

7. At least one "Little Black Dress" (I have many LBDs because black dresses look classy, sexy, sophisticated and are perfect for almost any occasion.)

6. Pencil skirts in solid colors and/or A-line skirts (If you do not already wear skirts, what is keeping you from wearing them? If you would like to start, find the skirt style(s) that fits and flatters your body. You can choose from so many styles, cuts and colors out there. You are bound to find at least one skirt that looks and feels great on you. Hopefully, you will find many!)

5. At least 1 coordinating, tailored pants or skirt suit/ensemble (Even if you are not an executive/ professional... you never know when you will need to appear even more pulled together and professional than usual, i..e. jury duty, an interview, a funeral (if your LBD is too little or revealing), going to the bank for an important loan, etc.)

4. Dress pants in neutral colors and black

3. Fitted dark jeans (Jeans come in MANY cuts/styles/colors so you may not find the perfect pair right away. Stay positive! You will find a pair that look made for you. Keep in mind, you may try on 20 or more pairs of jeans before you find the right cut/style/color right for your body.)

2. Crisp, white, collared, long sleeve button-up shirt (This shirt can be worn so many ways.)

1. Your amazing smile (Your smile is the most important piece to the style puzzle.)

***Remember to invest in pieces that you can mix and match, pieces that coordinate with the rest of your wardrobe and pieces that are consistent with your style/ representation of yourself.

Have fun, and pamper yourself!

Save Time For Yourself

2008-08-11T15:25:00.006-05:00

We are all busy in our own ways. Some of us are busy stay-at-home moms. Some of us are busy executives at huge corporations (and moms). Some of us are busy business owners (and moms). And some of us are so busy we lose track of time, do not get enough sleep and/or do not make enough time for ourselves. We all have busy lives, but we still need to be pampered. Most of us do not take enough time for ourselves. It is time to change that! You are an incredible, hard-working woman, and you deserve some time for yourself.

Here are a few time-saving tips to help allow for some increased pampering time for yourself. You deserve it!

1. Pick out your outfits (down to accessories and shoes) the weekend before the week ahead. This will save you so much time each morning (or at each night if that is when you used to pick out your outfits). Set aside space in your closet to put the week's worth of outfits. Try using a sachet bag for the jewelry that coordinates with each outfit. *This is also great for traveling so you can keep your whole outfit together. Shoe bags are also great for this purpose.

2. If you have kids (especially preteens), have them pick out their outfits ahead of time also. This way they can enjoy picking out their outfits, AND you get to approve/disapprove of the outfits beforehand. Not only does this save you time each morning, it may also save you the hassle of getting your kids to dress appropriately each morning (if this is even an issue for you).

3. If you usually cook dinner, try using a Crock*Pot. Talk about amazing. You can put together dinner in 10 minutes or less in the morning, place in the Crock*Pot and go about your busy day. After your long, hard day, when you are tired, all you have to do is sit back, relax and enjoy the amazing dinner you already prepared. Let someone else or the dishwasher do the dishes. :)

4. If you do have kids, leave them with their dad (if possible) OR hire a babysitter (or ask a relative, close neighbor, etc. to watch your kids) for a couple of hours (even just one hour) to allow you time for yourself to read, soak in a bath, get a manicure, organize your closet, workout, go for lunch with your girlfriends, take a breather or do whatever it is that relaxes you. I recommend doing this at least once a month, ideally once a week. Your kids do need you, but you need time for yourself as well. You will feel so much happier when you get the much needed time to yourself.

5. When do you shop for groceries (or run other errands)?
Many grocery stores are open 24 hours. Try shopping earlier in the morning or later at night when your kids are asleep (and someone else is watching your sleeping angels). If you want to avoid shopping early in the morning or late at night, try shopping during the weekday when your kids are at school, at after-school activities or at a friend's house. If you work out of the home during the day and your schedule permits, try shopping during your lunch break. This will allow you time to shop by yourself (which should speed things up a bit) and should save time when you would usually go grocery shopping, like on the weekend. The weekend can now be about you and your family instead of dreaded errands.

6. If you do not do this already, try packing your lunch instead of going out to lunch every day. This allows you to eat on the go if you have errands that you need to run, an appointment to get to or to workout. Having lunch out is nice and sometimes great for networking, but it will save you time and money to pack your lunch on most days. Try this for at least a week, and treat yourself to lunch out on Friday(s).

Of course each of our lives is different so you may only be able to use a few of these tips, but I hope you can make enough time for yourself.

Pamper yourself. You deserve it. Have a fabulous day every day!

The Art of Style

2008-07-10T17:38:00.003-05:00

Art evokes emotions. Some are happy and others are sad. Some are disturbing and others are pleasant. Similarly, fashion and style evoke emotions as well. You know that feeling when you put on your favorite outfit and you feel like a movie star? Well, what if you could get that feeling every day? Wouldn't you want to make that feeling last as long as it could? (How could feeling and looking amazing ever get old?)

Yes, everyone has his or her own style (whether you own it yet or not). The originality (art) of style and fashion is part of what makes getting dressed so much fun for many of us. However, I realize that some of you may not enjoy getting dressed or even looking through your own closet yet. This may mean that you have yet to discover the beauty in your clothes and/or in yourself. Maybe you still are not certain what your style is or how to find it. Maybe you feel like you just do not have time to figure these things out. Maybe you still do not make your style or yourself a priority. Whatever your reasons, you CAN 'make' time for yourself. In fact, it is imperative that you take time for yourself to figure out what your style is and what it says about you.

How do others perceive you? Truthfully, it DOES matter what your boss thinks of you and how your family and friends see you. Most importantly, it matters how you feel with yourself and the way you present yourself to others. Are you happy with what you see in the mirror? Are you happy with what others see? Are you confident in a room full of people (what about complete strangers)? It is important to reflect upon your feelings and your answers to the above questions. It is my hope that as you read these blogs you will take with confidence, optimism and the belief in yourself that you can achieve the style and life of which you have always dreamed. I hope that you continue to take care of yourself and give yourself what you deserve.

Everyone deserves a little pampering. For those of you who need some extra encouraging, pampering is important for many reasons. Pampering yourself or getting pampered (however you define 'pampering') can help you improve your mood, attitude, concentration and your overall well-being and health. The more you smile, the better you will feel. Having a style that you are proud to present will make you smile so much more than you already do.

The key is to find what makes you happy.

Let us start with happiness as it relates to your style. Does a certain color, fit, texture, fabric, accessory or other item get you smiling? What makes you feel sexy and confident? When do you feel your best? What is your favorite piece of clothing and why? Thinking about these things will help you understand why you feel the way you do about your style, your closet, your life and yourself. I am not saying that you should dream about fashion or drool over the latest trends, but I am saying that when you wake up each morning, you should feel fabulous and look amazing before you ever step out of your home. Style is a key factor in this equation. Waking up excited to get dressed will make you feel excited about the day ahead. You will be happier and more comfortable and confident with yourself. Because you will feel better and will have a happier start to each day, the work day should not seem as draining and boring. Afterall, you now look more divine than ever and feel even more fantastic, right?

If you have any questions, comments, stories you would like to share or would like to schedule an appointment with me, please email me at cs.stylelife@yahoo.com, call me at 618-401-1434 or leave a comment below this article. Thank you, and I look forward to working with you!

Wedding Style Services Available

2008-06-10T13:21:00.006-05:00

I am expanding my style services to now include wedding style services (in addition to everyday style, fashion and organization). I am extremely excited to be a part of the wedding industry, as it is fun for me to be creative and to see people so in love. If you have questions or would like to make an appointment to discuss your wedding, please call me today at

(618) 401-1434 or email me at cs.stylelife@yahoo.com. I look forward to working with you!

Wedding Crafts
Includes scrapbooks, gift baskets, attendant gifts, favors, place settings, centerpieces, etc.

Creative Wedding Assistance
Includes brainstorming themes, designing & creating programs & some invitations,
to-do workbooks, budget sheets, etc.

General Wedding Assistance
Acting as runner/ personal assistant on day of wedding & assistance with set-up

Small Party Planning
Planning for parties under 50 people, unless otherwise discussed
(Such as engagement parties, wedding/bridal showers, bachelorette parties, bachelor parties, etc.)

Makeup Application
Includes practice run for bride; makeup applications for bridesmaids and bachelorette party do not include a practice run unless otherwise discussed

Proposal Planning
Assistance with planning the perfect proposal for your special love

Cutesygirl Rocks!

2008-06-03T21:08:00.004-05:00

Cutesygirl.com is officially one of my favorite online shoe stores for women of most ages, at least those with young-at-heart fashionista attitudes. Cutesygirl.com offers a wide variety of shoes and a (less varied) collection of accessories and clothing. My favorite aspect of the online store is definitely the shoe department because the shoes are stylish. They complemement many styles, and they are affordable.

Cutesygirl.com offers amazing sale prices and complimentary shipping on purchases over $50. WOW! I can buy 3, 4, even 5 pairs of shoes for $50 from cutesygirl.com. That's what I call amazing! This website is tried and true. I have ordered from them twice so far. I received both orders (each with multiple pairs of shoes at once) in one week from the order date. I highly recommend cutesygirl.com to any fashionista who would like to expand her wardrobe with some stylish heels, wedges and/or flats without breaking the bank.

I have not ordered clothing or accessories from the site yet, but I do intend to in the near future. I saw that a pair of Cutesygirl sunglasses were featured in a popular magazine this past month. I hope to hear from all of you about your experiences with cutesygirl.com. :)

For the record, I am NOT a representative of Cutesygirl. I just really love shopping with cutesygirl.com and have had really great experiences with the company.

www.cutesygirl.com

A Passion for Style

2008-05-20T15:26:00.007-05:00

Hi, I am Catherine Burk. I am a self-employed StyleLife Consultant living in Edwardsville, IL. I am willing to travel outside the area for some clients, so don't hesitate to ask how far I will travel to help you. :)

I have a very deep passion for style, fashion and makeup. I LOVE helping other people explore styles and helping them find what fits them perfectly. My joy is showing people that everyone can feel amazing and look fabulous with the proper style tricks, tips and tools.

As a young girl, I learned how important it is to always look one's best. Whether we like it or not, others do judge us based upon first impressions, which usually means people evaluate us based on our looks initially. There is good news though because it is really quite simple to achieve an amazing style that speaks positive volumes. This is where I love to step in! I love teaching my clients to think creatively, optimistically AND realistically about their bodies, clothes, colors, cuts and fabric patterns.

Style and fashion are about having fun, showing your personality, finding functionality and loving how you look and feel! Getting ready (outfit selection, makeup application, accessories selection, etc.) is my FAVORITE part of the day, and it could be one of yours too. Just imagine how great it would feel to LOVE getting ready and to get dressed in clothes that make you feel like a million bucks... Ah, the sweet life can be yours TODAY!

As you might be able to tell already, I get very excited about helping my clients see their true beauty and style potential, guys and girls alike. I have had many years of training starting with my wonderful mother who taught me so much of what I know today about style and makeup. I went to college and received a bachelor's degree, all the while igniting my passion for fashion. I am currently working on several design lines and a style secrets book (which should be available online soon).

I have always had the passion to look my best, but more than that, I have always had the passion to feel my best. I find that the two correlate very heavily. Here is where my technique comes into play... Beyond wanting you to LOOK great, my goal is to help you FEEL great! Once we have accomplished both of those, you can accomplish anything!

My StyleLife approach is fun, helpful and professional. I love working with everyone- all ages, all shapes, all sizes- guys, girls, men, women... I just want to help you help yourself! If you are interested in learning more about my StyleLife consultations or scheduling an appointment today, please email me at cs.stylelife@yahoo.com or call me at (618) 401-1434. Thank you, and I look forward to working with you!

Tame Your Closet TODAY!

2008-05-20T11:24:00.008-05:00

Summer is here, and what better way to celebrate than to feel amazing???

It's time to get outside and to enjoy the weather with your family and friends. But first, are you ready for your 2008 summer debut? Are you asking, "What should I wear?" or "What makeup works best?" or "Where shall I shop for some new clothes?" or "Should I enhance my style or appearance?"... Remember not to stress out. This should be a time of enjoyment and fun for you. Spring and summer is a time for feeling amazing, looking fabulous and enjoying life, even more so than you do in the fall and winter months.

If you have any style or makeup questions, I would love to answer them. You may email or call me to schedule your appointment today. I am available for in-person consultations at your convenience. I look forward to helping you achieve your best possible style!!!

Are you looking through your closet for that first summer outfit? What do you think about the clothes you find? How do they look on you right now? (Try them ALL on! That's the only way to know, right?) How do these clothes make you feel? If the clothes look and feel great on you, then congratultions! That is an amazing feeling! BUT if you don't feel quite so lucky, please don't worry. A fabulous style is just days away from being a reality for you!

It just takes a little time, patience and a good attitude to objectively evaluate your style situation and to figure out whether you would like to hire a style consultant to help you through this process, which can be very overwhelming and stressful if you go at it alone. If you choose not to hire professional, ask a trusted friend his or her honest opinions about your wardrobe. (Brace yourself, and remember you did ask for the truth... They are only trying to help you be the best possible you!)

The many advantages to hiring a professional include fresh perspectives, additional creativity with clothes you already own, objective style and personality matching, a passion for style, fashion and makeup and an extra hand to hold through the whole process. Imagine how MUCH better you will feel AND look after you take charge of your closet!

After you hire a professional, your style process will begin! We will sift through your clothes, organize your closet and explore new styles for you together, as a team. This process really is so much more fun when you work as a team! You will be surprised how much better you feel, how much more energy you have and how much more fabulous you look all because of an improved style!!! When will you schedule your appointment?

De-clutter Your Closet

2008-03-17T12:28:00.009-05:00

Turn your chaotic closet into a beautiful boudoir.

The seemingly mundane task of cleaning out a closet may not sound like the most fun way to spend a Saturday afternoon, but think about the results... Wouldn't it be nice to see every item of clothing in your closet? Wouldn't it be nice to be able to pick out an outfit in less than 10 minutes each day? Wouldn't it be nice to feel happy while picking out outfits and getting dressed every day? Well, this is all possible IF you de-clutter your closet.

A. The first step to the closet de-clutter process is to physically remove the clutter from your closet. Take out everything! (This will make a mess... but soon the whole closet and your room will provide you with a fabulous feeling and an inspirational room for dressing.)

B. Keep four laundry baskets, bags or boxes handy to sort your clothes.
1. Keep *Put aside as these items will be organized shortly.
2. Donate *Goodwill, Salvation Army, friends or someone in need
3. Cherish *This should be used only as a last resort and/or for keeping for kids. There should be VERY few items in this bin.
4. Alter *Hire a tailor or alter the clothes yourself to make clothing more 'fitting' to your body.

C. When deciding which category to send your clothes, ask yourself the following questions:
1. Does the item FIT well? (Remember sizes vary across the board.)
2. Is the item FLATTERING on your figure from all angles? *Use a tri-fold mirror to check.
3. Is the item functional? Can you sit, stand, walk and bend over, etc. in the item?
4. Is the item classic or trendy, timeless or outdated?
5. Is the item in a complementary color?
6. What is your comfort level in the piece?
7. Would you rate this piece of clothing at an 8.5 or higher (on a 10 point scale)?
8. Does this item coordinate with clothes and accessories that you already own?
9. Where can you wear this item? Will you really wear this item within the next 3 months?
10. Does this piece of clothing 'fit' within your defined style?
11. How do you feel in this piece of clothing?
12. Does the piece still look new, or is it tattered or faded?

Pick out the clothes that are not worn (or should not be worn) by you and place these items in the appropriate bins (Donate, Cherish or Alter). *Ask a friend for his/her opinion or hire a style consultant for objective, expert advice.

D. Once all of your clothes are placed in appropriate categories, take out all of the 'Keep' items and organize them into sub-categories: pants [dress, casual, weekend], suits, tops [dress, casual, weekend], (dresses [formal, casual, professional, etc.]), (skirts [dress, casual, weekend])... You can even further organize by color, fabric, etc. Find what works best for you!

E. Put clothes on matching hangers (color coded, all wooden or fabric covered).

F. Use boxes/ baskets for classy storage for smaller items.

G. Have fun and love getting dressed every day!

It will make for a very easy selection process when your closet is organized.

Extra TIP: Select outfits for the next week to save time in your busy morning. Even include accessories and shoes to make getting dressed even easier and faster.

Winter Style Maintenance

2008-02-01T07:58:00.001-06:00

Because the weather is so radical lately, it does make maintaining one's style a little challenging. No worries though because you're fabulous, and I have more sanity-saving tips! :)

Because the weather is extra dry, you and your clothes will produce more static electricity. I recommend using a static prevention/ anti-cling formula, even hair spray would work on your clothes. If using hair spray, just spray a very fine mist on the area of concern (spray on the inside or reverse side of the fabric, rather than the side that is meant to be revealed). If using Static Guard or other anti-static/cling, follow the directions on the bottle. Carry extra formula/ hair spray in your bag just in case you need it later.

Of course your smile is very important to your style. So keep your lips moisturized! This tip is even more important at this time of year. Chapped lips are not only distracting, but they can also be painful. Prevention is the best method here. (The same goes for your hands, feet and the rest of your body!) Remember, stay hydrated!

Coffee drinking is one way to warm up this chilly season, but don't forget to brush after you drink coffee (or soda). This is a good way to help prevent the discoloration or staining of your teeth. Also, Crest Whitestrips are amazing. If you really must drink lots of coffee, use these strips as indicated on the box, and voila, fabulous white smile!

Does it seem like every piece of dust, fur, hair and lint in the air is gathering on your outfit? Carry a small lint brush or roller with you, and brush/roll as necessary. This tip will help keep your outfit looking fresh.

Ladies, so you can't wear your normal shoes because there's too much snow? It's a good thing boots are h-o-t! You can pair boots with so many outfits and styles that you should easily be able to find a pair of boots that matches your style and needs. If you must wear heels or some other type of shoe to work, try wearing boots until you get to work, and change once you're at your desk. This way you'll keep your shoes nice and your feet warm.

It's colder than usual, and you still need to look professional. Layering your clothes is very important this time of year. As your needs change during the day, you can take off layers or add layers. You can achieve so many great, classic (or trendy) looks with layering. For example, try a collared button-down under a nice sweater. Add a blazer on top. How chic!

I hope these tips come in handy! If you have any questions, comments or would like to book an appointment, please let me know by emailing me at the address at the top right corner of this blog page. Thank you, and enjoy your day!

Style Survival Guide

2008-01-13T14:26:00.000-06:00

Have you ever been in a style pinch? Have you ever spilled coffee on your white jacket? Have you ever wrinkled your pants during lunch or on an airplane immediately before an important meeting? Well, worry no more. Below is a list of amazing tools to help maintain your fabulous style even when you're in a style pinch. Just keep a readily accessible bag full of the items below in your purse, baggage, briefcase, etc., and you'll be prepared for almost any style disaster!

Top 10 Style Survival Items

1. Lint brush or roller (Try Fashion Emergency's folding lint brush for your purse/bag)

2. Safety pins and a mini Swiss Army multi-tool set

3. Battery operated defuzzer (Try evercare fabric defuzzer) (Don't forget batteries!)

4. Wrinkle releaser spray (Try Downy Wrinkle Releaser)

5. Clear nail polish (especially if you wear pantyhose) (Try Sally Hansen Diamond Strength in clear)

6. Fabric cleaner pen or wipes (Try Tide to GO pen)

7. Mini sewing kit for small repairs like re-sewing buttons or partial seams

8. Emery board or nail file (Try Ms. Manicure purse size emery boards)

9. Clear hooded poncho/ umbrella

10. A smile on your face!

Bonus Extras:

*If you wear heels, use non-slip patches on the bottoms of your shoes.

*If you plan to be on your feet, also use cushions that slip inside your high heels.

* Use double-sided fabric-to-body tape if you need fabric to stay in one place (like a very low cut dress).

*If you wear flats, use gel sole inserts if you plan to be on your feet much of the day.

*Pack extra deodorant and baby powder to help keep you dry.

Your Resolution

2008-01-07T12:29:00.000-06:00

So you have a New Year's resolution, just like every other year... only this year you vow to stick to it, right? It's tough to stick to some of our resolutions, like saving money, losing weight, organizing the home, etc. BUT all of these goals can be accomplished with focus~ think about what you want to accomplish first, then ACT upon it! This year is your year!

THINK.
1. Is your resolution realistic?
2. How will it affect others? (Stay away from ones that may be harmful to you or others.)
3. Why did you make this particular resolution?
4. What will you gain from sticking to this resolution?
5. How can you stay focused on achieving your goal?
6. Do you have a support system to help you?
7. What will you do to maintain your resolution?

ACT.
1. Personal time. Set aside time each day to focus on your resolution (without interruptions).
2. Remind yourself WHY your goal is so important to you.
3. Reward yourself. For each day of progress, reward yourself with something special.
4. Make fun. Your resolution activity should seem fun so you will stick to it.
5. The more progress you make the easier it will be to stick to your resolution for a longer period of time. Keep up the great work!!!
6. Believe in yourself!!! You can accomplish what you desire! It just takes some work, some fun and a lot of focus! :)

Image Resolutions

2007-12-26T13:43:00.000-06:00

The holiday season is closing, and many of us are contemplating our resolutions and reflecting upon the past year. You might be asking yourself, "What can I do better in the coming year? How can I improve at home, work or socially?" You might even ask, "Could my style use an update, or should I freshen my image?"

How will you keep your new year's resolution(s) this coming year? Will you stay focused and achieve your goal(s)? Will you treat yourself to what you deserve? Will you make time for yourself? Will you take charge of your life and your style? It's time for you to treat yourself to a StyleLife consultation today!!!

CONTACT CATHERINE TODAY!

Email: cs.stylelife@yahoo.com

Phone: (618) 401-1434

Please email or call me with any quetions, comments, concerns or if you would like to book an appointment. Thank you, and remember...

TODAY IS YOUR DAY!!!

Favorites for Him

2007-12-03T19:34:00.000-06:00

Guys, check out these products! I haven't personally tried all of these products directly, of course, but my fiance swears by them. I just love what they do for him.

1. Crest White Strips
2. Right Guard Xtreme Anti-Perspirant and Deodorant
3. Gillette Series After Shave Gel (Sensitive Skin)
4. Suave MEN Body Wash (Revitalizing Cool)
5. Colgate MaxFresh Burst (Peppermint)
6. Fructis Shine Shampoo
7. Fructis Style Surf Hair Texture Paste
8. Edge Shave Gel
9. Apricot Facial Scrub
10. Eye & Face Stress Gel

Tip: To get an even better shave, use an exfoliant (like the apricot facial scrub) before you shave. You'll get a smoother shave and fewer bumps. Then, use after shave.

Favorites for Her

2007-12-03T15:30:00.000-06:00

Here are my current top 20 favorite women's products (in no particular order and with a tie). These products are all high quality, affordable and easy to use.

19. Caress Tahitian Renewal Body Scrub
18. St. Ives Eye & Face Stress Gel
17. Maybelline Expert Eyes Moisturizing Remover for Waterproof Makeup
16. Degree Women's Anti-Perspirant and Deodorant (shower clean)
15. bareMinerals duo- Bisque Multi-Tasking Face & Well-Rested for Eyes
14. Juicy Couture Perfume
13. Blistex Silk & Shine
12. Crest White Strips (any package)
11. Vaseline Active Firming Lotion
10. Sunsilk Thermashine
9. American Beauty Overnight Radiance
8. Jane NO SHOW concealer
7. Loreal True Match Foundation
6. Tie: Loreal Sublime Bronze and Victoria's Secret Bare Bronze
5. Clean & Clear Advantage Acne Control Kit
4. Paul Mitchell Extra-Body Finishing Spray
3. Loreal True Match Powder
2. Paul Mitchell Super Skinny Serum
1. Cover Girl Volume Exact Mascara

Do you want to add your own favorites to the list? Let me know! Post your list or email it to cs.stylelife@yahoo.com. I want to hear from you! :)

Your Style Opportunity!

2007-12-01T15:57:00.000-06:00

Holiday Style Basics

2007-11-27T12:33:00.000-06:00

Happy Holidays!!!! Here are a few brief tips for the holidays. Enjoy!

What are the 'in' looks this holiday season?
Ladies: Metallics, jewel tones, velvet dresses & jackets, dressy suits, peep toe heels, red or dark wine painted toe nails, classic anything, pearls, sexy boots, skinny jeans, leggings, longer coats, wearing what you feel amazing in!

Gentlemen: Velvet blazers, funky blazers with dark jeans, layers, red, off-centered designs on shirts or blazers, metallic ties, wearing what you feel comfortable in!

What should I wear to my corporate office Christmas party?
Ladies and gentlemen, wear outfits that feel comfortable, yet look classy. Wear something that still lets people know who you are at work. People don't forget what you look like or how you act at parties... Afterall, work must go on!

Ladies, you may want to avoid showing too much skin; you're still in a professional environment (or will be on Monday). A little black velvet dress would look fabulous! If you would like to stay away from dresses, you should wear a dressier suit with a non-traditional cami or embellished shirt to add some flavor. Throw on an extra accessory to complete the look. The key here is to think CLASSY, but fun.

Gentlemen, you have two basic options here, generally speaking. Shirt and tie combos or full suits, depending on the industry and party type. You may be able to get away with a fun blazer with dark jeans and nice shoes. This look would work for a more casual party.

What should I wear to my own Christmas party?
Ladies, go for what you can easily move in (as you're the hostess). Choose an outfit in which you feel confident, sexy and take-charge. A little black dress, dressy pants with an elegant top or a wrap, a pencil skirt with a low neck top, an A-line skirt with a fitted sweater... your options are endless here. Just make sure you feel confident and comfortable!

Gentlemen, show your guests just how much you respect them by dressing for the occasion. Wear a tie or a blazer if your party includes more cockails than beer. Sometimes, it is fine to wear a sweater, but this is tricky. If you do wear a sweater, make sure it honestly looks great on you. Sweaters can sometimes appear outdated and too casual. It's okay to be picky here!

Good luck with your party and enjoy yourself... Cheers!

Welcome to StyleLife!

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Hi, I am Catherine, a StyleLife consultant in the St. Louis, MO area. Thank you for visiting my blog.

So what does a StyleLife consultant do? Well, I assist people with their style/fashion choices, closet organization, shopping- basically anything that relates to STYLE (personal or home). I want to enhance each person's style/image and to improve his/her confidence, whether it be a complete makeover or some encouraging words.

Put another way, style is a way of life! Clothes are a necessity in our society. Whether or not you wear clothes that fit and flatter you is your choice, but wouldn't you rather feel confident with what you wear and what you portray to others? And isn't time to help yourself, to make some time for yourself and to achieve a style that you love and with which you are comfortable and confident?

You deserve a treat for yourself! My goal is to improve the quality of your life, through style, without changing who you are.

This blog provides several tips, tricks and tools of the trade. If you would like to contact me personally, please email me at the address displayed at the top right corner of this blog. Once I receive your email, I will then provide you with my cell number so you can reach me at any time. I am available to answer style questions and to provide consultations. I look forward to working with you! Remember, today is your day!

Invest in Yourself

2007-11-12T15:09:00.000-06:00

Ladies & Gentlemen: Make your clothes work for YOU!

Your style is an investment. Many people convince themselves that worrying about one's style is superficial and of low priority. However, buying appropriate clothes and maintaining your style/image is an investment in yourself, your life and your future- socially, professionally and personally. The way you maintain yourself speaks volumes and often times speaks louder than what you may say with words. Typically, your style can tell people about you and your interests, like whether you're detail-oriented, artistic, conservative, etc. Are you portraying the image you want people to see?

Taking care of yourself is extremely important. Your style needs maintenance and upkeep. Are you still wearing clothes that you wore when you first started your job ten years ago? When was the last time you donated to the Salvation Army or Goodwill? Weeding out old clothes feels liberating, and it helps you 'cleanse' your wardrobe.

People do judge us based on appearances, fact. First impressions usually happen within the first five minutes of meeting a person. What kind of impression are you making? What sorts of impressions do you formulate when you first meet people? Pay attention to first impressions, style, body language... what do you discover? If one doesn't feel comfortable or confident, others can perceive that. Don't let this happen to you!!! Achieve comfort and confidence just by using the proper tips and tools that I provide in this blog and in my affordable StyleLife consultations.

So how much should you spend on your style? This is a tricky question. Some say that 20% of your annual income is a good amount to go toward your style and wardrobe (without overspending). If you're clever, you can easily stick to 10%. It's all about coordinating main, high quality pieces with moderate to high quality accent pieces. You should choose higher quality for the pieces you wear more often. In the end, the piece pays for itself especially if it's a little pricier than other pieces.

Find pieces that are timeless and look fabulous on you NOW. If you just have to have a piece of trend-only fashion then make sure it actually looks and feels fabulous on you NOW. Try it on before you get it home. Can you walk, sit, stand, bend over, move comfortably while you're wearing it? Does the color/ pattern accent your features, not make you look pale or tired? Does the piece fit and flatter your figure, height and size? Do you feel amazing in it? If you answered "yes," then congratulations, it seems that you have found a piece for your wardrobe! If you answered "no," then please put the piece back on the rack and move on to the next item. Your fabulous pieces are out there; don't give up! And don't settle for something that you don't absolutely love! The goal is for you to exude confidence by loving how you look and feel.

If you have style/ closet organization questions or want to completely overhaul your closet, I recommend calling a style consultant. Your image represents who you are. If you would like to speak with me personally, please email me at the address shown at the top right corner of this blog, and I will contact you. Thank you, and I look forward to working with you.

DIY or Hire a Pro?

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Should you hire a style consultant to enhance your style or should you do it yourself? Well, that depends on you. Do you have a lot of extra time, creativity and energy to devote to revamping or enhancing your style/ appearance? If your answer is "no," then hiring a style consultant would be very helpful. If you answered "yes," then you may be equipped to handle the style enhancement yourself, but keep a style consultant's number on hand in case you come to a roadblock or have questions along the way. A style consultant also provides encouragement in what may seem like a chaotic and emotional time.

You might still be asking, "Why should I hire a style consultant?" Well, a style consultant is a professional style expert. We know what looks good and what doesn't work so well. We are objective and imaginative. As a style consultant, I can help you save your time, your money and your sanity. I can save you money in the long run because I can help prevent big dollar mistakes. For example, many people actually spend too much money A. on too many clothes, B. on clothes that they may never wear, and/or C. on clothes that don't look flattering. I offer thorough guidance, ongoing advice, a constructive analysis of your current wardrobe, style, closet and body shape and encouragement along the way. I am here to help with any and all of your style needs at your convenience.

Do you need a little more confidence in yourself and your style? Do you want to be happier with your style and yourself? Would you like to purchase items that look and feel fabulous on you as you are now? Do you want to look in your closet and feel excitement, not anxiety? These are some questions that you should ask while deciding whether to hire a style consultant. If you answered "yes" to the above questions, you may want to hire a consultant right away. There's no better time than now!

I offer affordable, convenient style services. If you have any questions, comments, concerns or would like to schedule a style consultation, please email me at the address located the top right corner of this blog. Thank you, and I will get back to you immediately.

Ladies AND Gentlemen

2007-11-08T13:18:00.000-06:00

For the most part, I have posted advice geared toward women. However, many of the tips can work well for men as well. I apologize for failing to direct advice toward men since I do direct much of the information toward women. So, today, I am changing that! Ladies and gentlemen, I give you tips for all of you. I will continue to make an effort to give advice to both genders. If you have any questions, comments or concerns, please post a comment or email me at the address located at the top right corner of this blog. Thank you and enjoy!

Mixing textures can be lots of fun. Be creative! Think smooth with not-so-smooth. Ladies, wear a satin-like top with a suede-like skirt. Add a strand of pearls and heels, and wow, talk about glamorous! Gentlemen, wear jeans, a leather jacket and a fitted T-shirt or try a pinstripe blazer with jeans.

Ladies, wear an interesting, textured scarf or tie as a belt or headband. Gentleman, ties are abundant. Find some interesting ones for yourself to coordinate with a suit or just your favorite pair of dress slacks. I've even seen ties pulled off well on guys in jeans... try it out for yourself.

Ladies and gentlemen: Layering tops is a great look. Take it one step further by jazzing up layers with different textures. This looks amazing and is perfect for the fall and winter seasons.

Wear accessories that accent, not detract from, the rest of your outfit. Too many accessories can look gaudy or over-the-top so be picky about which pieces you wear and when.

Mix and match. Ladies, ever feel like a princess and rock diva at the same time? Express it with your style. You can be girlie and rock’n’roll at the same time. Improvise and use your imagination! For example, pair a guitar necklace with a pink top. Gentlemen, ever feel like a rockstar and a professor all at once? Try pairing a dark blazer with a pair of jeans. Add a cool chain or leather necklace for a stylish impact.

Have fun!!! Getting dressed should be an amazing, inspirational time of day, not a dreaded chore!

Own Your Size

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Wear your clothes in sizes that fit and flatter. Who cares what the tag says… I mention “sizes” as a plural because if you tried 10 different designer jeans in the same size, they would all fit you differently. I can wear 3 different sizes! If thinking about size really bothers you, cut off all of the size tags once your purchase the clothes. The important part here is to feel good about what you’re wearing. You’re sexy; own it!

Flattering your body is up to you. Much of the time when women attempt to hide what they think are their not-so-perfect areas, they actually HIDE their positive qualities. Reality check: we are women. Most of us do have curves. Let’s show them off!

There’s a line between too loose and too tight. You want to stay on the line of “just right.” Wear clothes that skim or glide over your body, not clothes that cling to or hide your curves.

Every body is different. If you are unable to hire a tailor/ seamstress to custom-fit your clothes, try choosing only the clothes that fit & flatter you off the rack. Try on every piece in the store fitting room before you purchase it to make sure that it fits and flatters you. If you hire a tailor, start with your most “important” pieces first to make the biggest impact on your wardrobe.

It's not your size that matters; it's the way you feel about yourself that matters!

Style Update

2007-11-08T11:30:00.000-06:00

Your style is a very personal and expressive form of art. Your style should be comprised of what you want others to see, what you want to see yourself, what makes you feel amazing and what excites you every day, especially when you get dressed. So, how do you achieve such an ideal style? That's easy! Take a thorough, OBJECTIVE look at yourself. Use the following questions as a starting point. Think of it as a very personal interview! Be honest with yourself and embrace the results.

List three (3) or more words that describe your personality.

List three (3) or more words that describe you, physically.

How do you think people currently view you, physically?

How do you think people view you based on your emotions and personality?

How long have you had your current wardrobe?

Do you have a defined style?

How often do you clean out your closet and weed out old clothes?

Do you own clothes that you don’t really like or don’t ever wear?

What is your least favorite piece from your wardrobe? Why do you still own it?

Who are your fashion icons? Why?

Are there any items of clothing that you want to try to wear but haven’t tried yet? If so, what are these items? Why haven’t you tried to wear them yet?

Have you recently had a life change (gaining/losing weight, graduation, new job, marriage, kids, divorce, career change, self-exploration)?

Are you bored with your style, wardrobe or closet?

Do you have a closet full of clothes but suffer from "I-don't-have-anything-to-wear-itis?"

Your style should reflect who you are, what you want to see on yourself and what you want other people to see. After thinking about the above questions, do you have a better sense of your real style? How different is your real style from the style you currently own in your closet? Do you currently have a defined style or a mix of everything?

When should you update your style? Well, if you are asking this question, then the answer is "now!" Confidence is the key when choosing and maintaining your style and wardrobe. If you aren't 100% happy with each and every piece you own, then it is time for a change. Maybe the change entails weeding out some older clothes and adding some new items... Maybe the change involves looking at yourself and your closet differently... Whatever the change, you're in for a treat! Wouldn't you feel better about your style, yourself and your life if you were more confident and projected that attitude in your style? I thought so.

What should you do if you don't have time to update your style or don't know where to start? That's simple. Contact me today for a free estimate. I will work to fit your schedule and your budget. I can teach you how to organize your closet, how to define your style and how to be confident with your style and yourself. I offer many consultation options from a Closet-Cleanout to Personal Shopping Assistance to a Complete Style Enhancement. I will work to fit your style needs, whatever they may be! Your style should represent who you are NOW. Focus on the present you because you are fabulous now! To contact me with questions, comments, concerns or to schedule a consultation, please post a comment or email me at the address located at the top right corner of this blog. Thank you, and I look forward to working with you! Remember, today is your day!

Color Me Pretty!

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Make colors and patterns work for you!!!

*Mixing patterns is tricky so if you’re unsure how they look, try one patterned piece at a time. Too many patterns will clash and can look tacky.

*Find your color palette. Do you have a cool, warm or neutral skin tone? Colors can affect your mood and your appearance.

*Mix and match your clothes. Did you know that you can piece together 15 different outfits with 5 main pieces without looking like you’re wearing the same things over and over?

*Build a foundation for the rest of your wardrobe. Be creative when you’re shopping for new items. Will they coordinate with other items (old or new)? Are they classic or trendy?

*For a slimmer look, wear solid colors.

*Wearing conservative colors in a professional setting is the typical ‘professional uniform.’ However, you can add a splash of color and still look professional. Accent & balance are the keys! Try a brighter colored accessory or cami (under a jacket, of course) for a fun change.

Brighten up your wardrobe (even if just weekend wear); brighten up your life!

Go Figure!

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Ladies, it's time to feel good about your bodies as they are NOW!

What looks best on your figure?

Please keep in mind that this is a brief (not exhaustive) list, and there may be exceptions. This is your chance to have fun trying different styles, fits and textures. Mix and match fitted pieces with not-so-fitted pieces. Try layering pieces for an amazing look, especially great for fall and winter. Remember that size and height also play important roles when assessing what will look best on your figure. No two people are the exact same, so enjoy your individuality and empower your femininity!

Most shapes:
"True waist belts," wrap dresses (fabric depends on individual), a perfect-fitting bra (see Victoria's Secret to find your true size), a smile and confidence!!! I cannot stress the last two (smile & confidence) enough! Enjoy who you are and what you wear!

A-shape:
Button-down tops, longer tops that fall past your "lower waist," deep V-neck tops, long flowy tops, A-line skirts, wide-leg pants that flatter hips- The key here is to balance the top and bottom portion of your body.

AV-shape:
Long dressy jackets, slight V-necks, scoop necks, longer tops, A-line skirts, wide-leg pants, tailored/fitted dress pants that skim over the hips, collared button-ups- Here, we want to embrace your curves!

V-shape:
Flowy (not overly loose) dresses, Empire waist tops and dresses, A-line skirts- The key here is to balance the top and bottom portion of your body, reverse from the A-shape. Here it is even more important to have a bra that fits, for medical reasons and for style reasons!

Linear:
Pencil skirts with collared button-ups and a "true-waist belt," (fitted) halter dresses, deep V-necks, sometimes even plunging necklines, dresses with "rouching" at one side- Here we are aiming to amp up, or give the illusion of, curves.

O-shape:
Avoid the potential trap of trying to "hide" in your clothes. Choose pieces that accentuate your favorite features. Longer suit jackets with matching pants, flowy (not overly loose) tops, mostly solid colors, few to no horizontal stripes- Here the important part is to find what works best with your height in addition to your shape.

If you have any questions, comments or concerns, please leave a comment or email me at the address at the top right corner of this blog. Thank you!

Hiring a Style Consultant

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Style consultants are professional image experts. We are fashionistas, image artists and stylists. Our clients include women AND men. My personal goal is to improve the quality of your life, without changing who you are. Through style, you can enhance your life more than you may have thought possible.

Ask yourself the following questions: How often do I see myself? How often do others see me, professionally and socially? How many more people see me more times than I see myself in one day? What are they looking at? How would others describe my style and appearance? How do people perceive me? Do people smile at me often? Am I easy to approach? Do I project confidence and professionalism?

Now, when you look in the mirror, what do you see? How would you describe your style and appearance? Take the time to describe it; write it down objectively. Do you love what you see? If not, call me or seek a style consultant in your area immediately! Sometimes, even if you love what you see, but your style is actually inappropriate for your lifestyle, then you should seek a style consultant. Would you like to enhance your style, wardrobe and appearance? If the answer is 'yes,' then I recommend calling a style consultant in your area. I work mostly in the St. Louis, MO/ Edwardsville, IL area. However, I will travel outside the area for a possible extra charge, depending on the location.

As a StyleLife consultant, I will share with you the beauty of style for life, including clothing, makeup (if applicable), hair, shoes, accessories, etc. that will work with your needs and your lifestyle. I will show you how to find clothes that look and feel great on you and your figure. I will help you realize your style potential and to help you feel fabulous about yourself and your life. Learn to love your body right now and to define your style for your needs and your lifestyle right now. Focus on the present you.

If you would like to contact me with questions, comments or to schedule a consultation, please leave a comment or email me at the address shown at the top right corner of this blog. Thank you, and I look forward to working with you!

Product Quality vs. Product Price

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Let's a take a look at seven common products and services. Does a higher price mean higher quality? What are you really paying for?

1. Hair products. Sometimes it is true with hair products that a little more money gets you a little higher quality of product. Let's take Paul Mitchell for example. Paul Mitchell products are not the most expensive products, but they are higher in price than say, Suave or Herbal Essences. I prefer Paul Mitchell because the quality is amazing.

Keep in mind that with hair products, as with many beauty products, 'quality' can really only be determined by your trial and your satisfaction with the product. Defining quality depends on individual hair needs and hair type. A product that works well on you may not work well on me because we may have different needs, hair types, etc. For instance, I would never use shampoo for regular hair because my hair is very dry, and I dye it regularly. However, you may say that you never dye your hair and that you love Herbal Essences' shampoo for normal hair. Our hair is different, and that means our hair requires different treatment and care.

Since I have thick, brittle, dyed blonde hair, I need products that nurture extra dry hair. Paul Mitchell, Sunsilk Thermashine, Aussie (3-minute Miracle), Infusium 23 (detangler), and Matrix are examples of high quality products in a low to moderate price range for extra dry hair. Paul Mitchell and Matrix also make quality products for other hair types.

2. Makeup. This is a tricky one because sometimes it does pay off to pay more for quality, but how do you know when you are paying more for quality and not just paying more for packaging and reputation? Trial and error! When you try on makeup or sample products, ask yourself these questions. Does the product feel amazing when I apply it? Does it look nice with my skin tone? Does it cause irritation? Is it easily removed with cleanser? How long does the product wear without smudging or fading? The quality of makeup depends on what you are looking for in each product. I search for great colors, long-lasting wear, convenient design and easy application.

CoverGirl, Loreal, Revlon, Maybelline, Jane, and Mary Kate and Ashley cosmetics can be found at most drugstores, Wal*Mart and Target stores nationwide. These brands are all fairly inexpensive and great quality. American Beauty, Flirt! and bareMinerals are great quality, but in a slightly higher price range. I usually do not spend more than a moderate amount on makeup because I can find high quality makeup for a lower price. Department store lines, which are usually good quality as well, typically cost the most. Are these products worth every dollar that you pay? Have you tried less expensive makeup? If so, what are the differences? Are there any noticeable differences? What are the similarities? What do you like about each product that you try?

The Mary Kate and Ashley product line really surprised me because it seems aimed at teens. I am in my mid twenties and found that the products work great at my age also. The Mary Kate and Ashley line includes great colors, long-lasting wear, convenient designs AND easy application. I especially love Mary Kate and Ashley Double Cover 2-in-1 Concealer because it includes a liquid and a solid concealer. This product is great for me because I want to cover blemishes and under-eye circles, and the product does both very nicely. I would recommend Mary Kate and Ashley to women in their teens and twenties.

American Beauty is aimed at a more mature audience and is an example of high quality makeup. American Beauty is a little more expensive, but not break-the-bank pricey, and is available at Kohl's. American Beauty makeup colors are conservative, beautiful and classy. American Beauty also has a line of foundation that aims to help diminish the appearance of fine lines. The foundation has a slight shimmering, not glittery, effect to help reduce the appearance of fine lines. I would recommend American Beauty for most ages.

bareMinerals (Bare Escentuals) is another great example of high quality. bareMinerals is more expensive than drugstore brands, but seems well worth the money. bareMinerals provides great coverage, a range of colors and easy application. I would recommend this line of makeup for all ages.

I prefer not to spend a lot of money on makeup because I love trying all sorts of products. Makeup application is an art form, and I am an artist! With makeup, an important part is to compare ingredients. Many products include similar ingredients across the board of makeup brands. If products include similar ingredients, why pay for the product from the more expensive line? Remember that trial and error is very important with makeup, for your skin and for your satisfaction.

***Be careful when trying on makeup at stores. Are there disposable applicators, alcohol, cleansers and an attendant who can help you select and clean products? It is possible to spread nasty germs at the makeup counter (ESPECIALLY during flu season) so I recommend trying colors and other products on the back of your hand, not your face and washing your hands immediately. However, to find the perfect shade of foundation, it is recommended to apply the foundation to your jawline in order to perfectly match your skin tone. Trying display makeup on your face is at your own risk. I recommend washing your face immediately after finding your perfect shade.

Some stores even offer an exchange program for makeup. Check with your local stores about exchange/return policies on makeup. If you can exchange slightly used makeup, simply guess at your shade, purchase it, try and exchange if necessary. This way you can avoid playing with 'contaminated' makeup.

3. Clothes. Paying a little more for clothes does sometimes mean you are paying more for quality. Better stitching and better materials usually cost more than items with fair (or not-so-good) materials. Now, of course there are exceptions, such as Abercrombie, which is pretty pricey but not always worth the money. There is such a thing as high quality but over-the-top prices as well. If you can truly afford Armani, then go for Armani. But if you prefer to stick to a lower price range, you can find amazing pieces at Macy's, specialty boutiques and online. Paying more does not ensure that you will receive higher quality items, especially online when you don't have the option to feel or look up close at the piece before you purchase it. Make certain that you can easily return or exchange the item if needed.

Purchasing a nicer suit usually means spending a little more money since the materials and stitching are probably of higher quality than a less expensive suit. Keep an eye out for details, stitching, fit, fabric, etc. to determine if the suit you are trying on is worth the money. Also keep in mind the following questions. How are you supposed to wash it? Is that convenient for you? How does the fabric feel against your skin? How does the suit (or other piece of clothing) fit when you stand, sit and walk? Can you wear a button-down under the jacket? Does the jacket (or shirt) button up all the way or does it pull in areas?

4. Jewelry. This one depends on you. Do you have to have authentic diamonds or would you feel comfortable wearing costume jewelry? How often will you wear each piece? If you purchase real diamonds and precious metals, do you have a safe place to store them and clean them? Will you wear them enough to make the purchase worth your money? Of course, real diamonds will last longer than costume jewels. If you plan to wear a piece only a few times, then it would probably be better to purchase a moderately priced piece of 'costume' jewelry, not an expensive piece with real diamonds. Department stores usually have a large variety of jewelry from which to choose. They are usually moderately priced and of moderate quality, which would be a great buy if you do not plan on wearing the pieces on a daily basis.

5. Shoes. Shoes of higher quality are almost always a little more expensive. However, as with the above products, it is possible to buy something that is over-priced and of low quality. In order to ensure good quality, try the shoes on in the store. Look at the stitching and materials used. Will these shoes be weather resistant? Are they simply worth the money in looks and style? How often will you wear these shoes? Are they comfortable or at least comfortable enough for what you need them? Can you afford them? Could you buy a whole outfit instead? If so, which would you prefer to have? Do you absolutely love this particular pair of shoes? How many outifts will coordinate with these shoes? Why do you want these shoes at this time? These are things you need to ask yourself while deciding whether the purchase would truly be worth the money.

6. Professional Hair Care. You pay for experience here! Higher quality salons will most likely charge more per cut/style/color/etc. However, you may also pay for atmosphere, status and reputation in addition to quality stylists. However, not all stylists at expensive places are worthy of the price they charge. Your best bet is to try several stylists at different locations and then decide which stylist/ salon you prefer to visit regularly. Don't forget, good etiquette means leaving a tip at most salons (which hikes up the price).

7. Purses. Is it worth your money to pay $300 for one purse? Well, if you plan to wear it regularly, then yes, it may be worth your money. Coach is a perfect example of priciness and very high quality. The purses are expensive but worth the money for style, status and quality. Obviously, you should not break the bank for one purse, but if you can afford Coach or Louis Vuitton, then purchasing one or two purses/bags may be a good investment for you if you plan to wear them often. There are good quality purses that cost much less also, such as Tommy Hilfiger, Nine West, Liz Claiborne and Guess. It really depends on how often you plan to wear the purse, where you would wear the purse and with what outfits you would wear the purse. I love my Coach purses because they look classy even after I wear them regularly to all sorts of functions! I would highly recommend Coach, Louis Vuitton and Guess for regular wear. Check out specialty boutiques, department stores and online for elegant clutches that would be worn less often.

The keys to the quality vs. cost analyis is trial and error and deciding how you feel about the products and/or services. There are no set standards. What matters is what your desires and needs are for a particular product or service. What do expect from each? How much are you willing to pay? How often would you use it? Is it really worth what you would pay? How long will it last? Do you love it? Will you still love it in two weeks?

Shopping can be fun, but be careful not to become convinced that spending more money always means higher quality. Additonally, just because a product or service is higher quality does not mean that you need the more expensive, or higher quality, product or service. Look at your needs and desires. Keep it all in perspective!

More Glamorous Tips

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The previous post reviewed 10 beauty secrets for skin, hair and makeup. Now, let's review tips that cover clothes and accessories. The following tips are also from my book-in-progress Glamorous Secrets REVEALED (c). If you have any questions or comments, please feel free to post a comment or email me at the address shown in the top right corner of this blog. Your feedback is important!

Accessories
The key to any outfit is confidence and a smile. This is a killer combination with any outfit.

For a stylish touch (to any hairstyle), add a scarf as a headband.

If you don’t already wear heels, try them out. If you’re not used to wearing heels, take some time (10 minutes or so) each day to carefully practice walking in heels, and before it you know it, you’ll be walking like a runway model. Remember, confidence is the key! Obviously, heels are not for everyone, but give them a try before you say they’re not for you. If you’re worried about comfort, you can buy insert cushions for heels, which work wonders especially if you end up wearing them often or for long periods! Heels have an amazing effect on any outfit, especially when paired with jeans and a blouse. This is one of my favorite looks!

In moderation, jewelry, clutches, sunglasses and hats are a perfect way to accessorize and complete any look. Simply by switching accessories around, you can transform your style. Trade in the purse you always wear for a classy clutch and a string of pearls (real or faux).

Denim Diva
Sometimes we choose stylish over practical, and that’s okay! Practicality is important, much of the time, but who doesn’t like to get all dolled up once in awhile? Try mixing practicality with not-so-practical pieces to create a stylish look that is still practical. If you can’t wear heels to work because you are on your feet all day, then wear comfortable shoes that still coordinate with your outfit and add a dressier handbag or other accessory. You can buy very stylish flats at almost any shoe store.

Who doesn’t love jeans? They can be dressed up or down. Heels, flats, sandals…black, white, brown, pink…tanks, blouses, tees…they all work with jeans! You can buy denim in so many colors, styles and textures that your wardrobe options are endless. Wearing fitted dark blue jeans with a dressier top and shoes can help create a sexy, sophisticated look.

Jeans are hard to shop for because not all brands, designer lines and styles are made equally. Try on jeans at the store before you buy them so you can be certain that they are comfortable and flattering on you before you get them home. And just because you look and feel fabulous in one size, color or style does not mean that you should stick to that size, color or style across the board of brands and designer lines. I can wear three different sizes depending on where I shop…

Fitting
Some women believe that by wearing looser-fitting clothes that they “hide” their alleged imperfections, but much of the time it actually does the opposite. If you have curves, show them off with fitted clothes that skim or glide over, but not cling to, your curves. You’ll look and feel so much sexier than you already are!

For the most part, choose only one body part to accentuate at a time. If you show lots of leg, keep the girls covered. If you wear a tight shirt, wear slightly looser pants (wide leg pants are very hot).

Wardrobe Basics
Versatile staples for almost any wardrobe: a black dress, fitted dark blue jeans, a pair of dressy black pants, classic black heels, comfortable flats in a neutral color, a pair of dressy neutral pants, a fitted white long-sleeve oxford, a pencil and/or A-line skirt, sexy red shoes and a smile!

You don’t have to break the bank to treat yourself to some new pieces! Get together with your girlfriends and go bargain shopping. Set a limit before you leave your house. I find it helpful to take a limited amount of cash and no plastic… You’ll be surprised what you can find when you make yourself stick to a smaller budget. Keep in mind that many stores have a sale or clearance section. But remember, don’t cheat yourself out of quality. Sometimes it is best to pay a little more to get a little more!

You can choose comfort and still be stylish at the same time. If you’re comfortable and confident in your outfit, it will show. Confidence completes any look. You are beautiful; now show the world!

10 Glamorous Secrets REVEALED

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What if you could feel like a million bucks in 20 minutes or less? We all like to be pampered, and who doesn't like to look and feel fabulous? Isn't it time for you to treat yourself?

The following list includes 10 tips from my book-in-progress, Glamorous Secrets REVEALED (c).

If you have any questions, please post a comment or email me at the address located at the top right corner of this blog. Thank you, and enjoy!

1. Elusive Smoky Eyes
This look does seem more difficult than most, but it doesn’t have to be that way for you. Simply use one shade or multiple shades of black, gray and/or charcoal eyeshadow and dark eye liner. Use one end of the cotton swab to apply a dark eyeshadow under your eyes, and then use the other end to blend, soften and create the “smoky” effect. OR use black eye liner and smudge with a cotton swab. For maximum results, use eye liner first, and then apply dark eyeshadow on top of liner and smudge with a cotton swab. This look may require a few practice runs. “Practice makes perfect!”

2. Flirty, Come Hither Eye Lashes
For perfectly long and thick eye lashes, you can use two kinds of mascara, one for lengthening and one for thickening. Apply either mascara focusing on the outer lashes most; use a slight twirling motion. SLOWLY pull the applicator through your eyelashes, focusing on the tips. This will give the mascara time to stick to your lashes. This also prevents tarantula eyes. Immediately after you apply the first coat, go back and apply the other kind of mascara or double up on the same kind of mascara. More than one coat really does help achieve that sexy, smoldering look! If you put mascara on your lower lashes, keep it minimal. Remember that mascara application takes some patience.

3. Bronze Beauty
For a summery glow, apply bronzer to cheeks and lightly over the rest of your face (think where the sun would hit), neck, collar bone, shoulders and cleavage to achieve a stunning effect! This one may take some practice to achieve a natural look.

4. Basic Applicators
Try using cotton swabs and cotton balls to apply eyeshadow powder and cream for an amazing effect! Cotton swabs are great for the crease of your upper lids and under your lower lashes.

5. The Perfect Shave
Exfoliate before you shave. It will help give you a smooth, clean shave and super silky legs. Moisturize legs thoroughly after you pat dry legs.

6. Smile!
Your smile is often the first thing people notice about you. Whitening strips (such as ones from Crest) are an amazing way to amp up your smile! These strips are quick, simple to use, and they work! Are you a coffee drinker, smoker or Mountain Dew drinker? If you want a brighter smile, using home whitening strips may be right for you. Talk with your dentist about options.

7. Change with the Seasons
During summer, you probably want to use a darker shade of tinted moisturizer/foundation/powder than what you use in the winter IF your skin is darker in the summer (usually because of more sun exposure) and lighter in the winter.

8. Youth in a Bottle
Always use moisturizer. If you have normal skin, consider using a lighter (oil-free) lotion in the summer and a heavier cream in the winter. Moisturizer is the key to healthy skin! Talk with your dermatologist to see which products work best for your skin type.

9. Tired of the Tired Circles
For dark under eye circles, apply a liquid or cream-to-powder concealer that is one shade LIGHTER than your skin, or use a yellow concealer to neutralize the blue circles.

10. Fabulous Hair, Fabulous You
Switch shampoo and conditioner brands every so often. I recommend sticking to your two favorite kinds and alternating between those every other month. I alternate between Paul Mitchell and Sunsilk Thermashine (formerly Thermasilk).

Always remember that you are beautiful and fabulous! You deserve to feel beautiful and fabulous as well! If you have any questions, please post a comment or email me at the address located at the top right corner of this blog. Thank you!

Contact Me Today

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Would you like to enhance or update your wardrobe? Do you have questions about style? Are you hosting a large dinner or event and would like to find the perfect outfit? Are you interviewing for a new job, going on a blind date or dating unsuccessfully? Would you like some closet organization assistance? Have you ever wanted a personal stylist to assist you with your style needs and desires?

If you answered "yes" to any of the above questions, then I can help! I am a style consultant and life coach. I want to help you improve the quality of your life, without changing who you really are. My goals are simple. I want to help increase your confidence in yourself and in your style, to help you help yourself and to help you look and feel fabulous. I want to work with you!

I offer many consultation options and packages for the St. Louis, MO and Edwardsville, IL (62025) area. *I will travel outside of the area but may charge extra for travel time, mileage, flights, etc. Email me for more details.

If you have any questions or would like to schedule a consultation for yourself or as a gift, please email me at the address located at the top right corner of this blog. Thank you, and I will get in touch with you immediately. I look forward to working with you!