Save Time For Yourself

We are all busy in our own ways. Some of us are busy stay-at-home moms. Some of us are busy executives at huge corporations (and moms). Some of us are busy business owners (and moms). And some of us are so busy we lose track of time, do not get enough sleep and/or do not make enough time for ourselves. We all have busy lives, but we still need to be pampered. Most of us do not take enough time for ourselves. It is time to change that! You are an incredible, hard-working woman, and you deserve some time for yourself.

Here are a few time-saving tips to help allow for some increased pampering time for yourself. You deserve it!

1. Pick out your outfits (down to accessories and shoes) the weekend before the week ahead. This will save you so much time each morning (or at each night if that is when you used to pick out your outfits). Set aside space in your closet to put the week's worth of outfits. Try using a sachet bag for the jewelry that coordinates with each outfit. *This is also great for traveling so you can keep your whole outfit together. Shoe bags are also great for this purpose.

2. If you have kids (especially preteens), have them pick out their outfits ahead of time also. This way they can enjoy picking out their outfits, AND you get to approve/disapprove of the outfits beforehand. Not only does this save you time each morning, it may also save you the hassle of getting your kids to dress appropriately each morning (if this is even an issue for you).

3. If you usually cook dinner, try using a Crock*Pot. Talk about amazing. You can put together dinner in 10 minutes or less in the morning, place in the Crock*Pot and go about your busy day. After your long, hard day, when you are tired, all you have to do is sit back, relax and enjoy the amazing dinner you already prepared. Let someone else or the dishwasher do the dishes. :)

4. If you do have kids, leave them with their dad (if possible) OR hire a babysitter (or ask a relative, close neighbor, etc. to watch your kids) for a couple of hours (even just one hour) to allow you time for yourself to read, soak in a bath, get a manicure, organize your closet, workout, go for lunch with your girlfriends, take a breather or do whatever it is that relaxes you. I recommend doing this at least once a month, ideally once a week. Your kids do need you, but you need time for yourself as well. You will feel so much happier when you get the much needed time to yourself.

5. When do you shop for groceries (or run other errands)?
Many grocery stores are open 24 hours. Try shopping earlier in the morning or later at night when your kids are asleep (and someone else is watching your sleeping angels). If you want to avoid shopping early in the morning or late at night, try shopping during the weekday when your kids are at school, at after-school activities or at a friend's house. If you work out of the home during the day and your schedule permits, try shopping during your lunch break. This will allow you time to shop by yourself (which should speed things up a bit) and should save time when you would usually go grocery shopping, like on the weekend. The weekend can now be about you and your family instead of dreaded errands.

6. If you do not do this already, try packing your lunch instead of going out to lunch every day. This allows you to eat on the go if you have errands that you need to run, an appointment to get to or to workout. Having lunch out is nice and sometimes great for networking, but it will save you time and money to pack your lunch on most days. Try this for at least a week, and treat yourself to lunch out on Friday(s).

Of course each of our lives is different so you may only be able to use a few of these tips, but I hope you can make enough time for yourself.

Pamper yourself. You deserve it. Have a fabulous day every day!

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